Non-normative and queer family planning can feel like a challenging puzzle. Many people experience isolation and uncertainty.

I offer firsthand knowledge and empathetic support to you and your donor throughout the process.

Our work unfolds over the following phases, depending on each client’s needs:

    • Identifying the values that drive you

    • Creating a Family Framework that's authentic to you

    • Connecting you to stories of like-minded queer parents

    • Supporting you to get the information you need to overcome blocks and feel ready to move forward

    • Helping you activate the vision for your future

    • Brainstorming values-aligned sperm donors in or adjacent to your network

    • Starting the conversation with potential donors

    • Making an informed donor selection

    • Building your checklist of items to discuss with your donor and coaching through the process to reach a Donor Agreement

    • Supporting your and your donor's emotional and practical needs

    • Building queer pride and solidarity

    • Exploring at-home, IUI and IVF options

    • Sharing tips and resources to make the process as effective and smooth as possible

    • Helping you communicate and plan with your donor through the insemination process

    • Identifying and working with practitioners who support your fertility process

    • Navigating your relationship with your donor through pregnancy, birth and parenting

    • Sharing your family-making story and values with friends and family

    • Fostering a positive relationship between your donor and your kid(s)

    • Connecting your donor to other sperm donors for long-term support and community

    • Deepening queer love and solidarity!

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